Allison D.’s Ring

My ring represents generations of unconditional love. 

When I met the love of my life, I worried about the impact my relationship would have on my family relationship. My parents struggled with the news that I was in a same-sex relationship. I didn't mention anything to my extended family. It was hard not to feel isolated, scared, and hurt. 

Before a visit to my hometown, I emailed some extended family to introduce my partner. Their responses of love and acceptance rippled through my whole family.

This ring, which belonged to my wife's mother, fills me with pride. I discuss our experience often. I hope my pride helps others feel validated.